Do you hate to get up in the morning? Are you having financial difficulties? Do you dislike your job? Is your family making you crazy? Is your life a constant set of challenges? When someone tells you to have a good day, do you just want to tell them to shut up?
If any of the above frustrations and disappointments describe you and your life, take heart. You are in good company. There are many of us are trying to survive in a stressed out world of too many expectations, too little time, and too much stretching of ourselves in order to do it all. Stop!
*EAT BREAKFAST. Start out your day right with a good healthy breakfast. This will jump start your metabolism and give you a boost to get you through the morning. You will think more clearly, have more energy, and be far less inclined to be down in the dumps.
*GET A GOOD NIGHT'S SLEEP. Getting enough sleep can make the difference between having a good day and a bad day. With enough sleep, your body will be ready to face the alarm clock with a smile, or at least almost a smile.
*TAKE A DEEP BREATH. Literally. Then take another. Fill your lungs with as much air as you can suck in! Breathe it out slowly. Now close your eyes and smile. Will your coworkers think you have lost your mind? Maybe. Who cares as long as you feel better?
*LAUGH. It isn't as difficult as it sounds. Think of something funny that has happened to you. Think of your favorite comedian or your favorite joke. If you can't think of anything funny, laugh just for the heck of it. Laughter really is the best medicine.
*SHOW KINDNESS. Help out a friend who is in need. Show them that you care. When you show kindness, you are sending out a positive feeling that affects everyone in its path. Kindness is contagious.
*TAKE A WALK. Getting outside in the fresh air and moving your body are two great ways to feel better. Breathe deeply and smell the air, the trees, and the flowers. You don't have to walk quickly, you just have to move.
*PLAY. Play with your kids, your friends, or your dog. Play tag. Run around the yard. Rake the leaves. Work in your garden. Get your hands dirty. Feel the earth.
*SHOW GRATITUDE. What are you grateful for? Make a list. Once you get started, you will be amazed at how much there is in your life to be grateful for. Number one on your list should be you!
*SIT IN THE SUN. If you can, sit in the sun for 10 minutes. It can have a wonderful, invigorating effect on your outlook. It is also very good for your health. That's how our body soaks up life-enhancing vitamin D.
*NEVER CONCENTRATE ON THE NEGATIVE. Concentrate only on the good things that are happening in your life. Never compare yourself to others. This can lead to disappointment and envy, two very negative qualities.
Do we all have bad days? Of course, we do. The trick is to know how to pull yourself out of those gloomy feelings and find the joy that really is living within you.
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