If your life is as hectic as most people’s, you probably have moments when you feel like it is completely out of control. How do you rein everything in and achieve some sort of balance to your life?
Having balance is a having a sense of harmony and peace in your life. Your life is made up of many different areas, your health, your family, your work, your financial situation, your social life, your recreational time, and your personal growth.
How in the world do you balance out all of those things? You won’t be able to spend time each day in each area in equal amounts. However, if you can spend quality time in each area, you will feel like your life is in balance.
Remember, though, that you must not neglect any one area or you will cause other aspects of your life to fall into disrepair. For example, if you devote your energies to your job or business, then your personal life will suffer.
HOW TO FIND BALANCE
To find a life balance that is healthy, you must be able to integrate all of those areas of your life that are important to you. To be successful at this, you must be able to make choices about what areas come first.
Yes, it can be very difficult to prioritize your life. There will always be sacrifices that must be made. You must decide what means the most to you in your life and make your choices based on that criteria.
When you are ready to bring balance to your everyday life, follow these tips:
ALLOW SELF-CARE TIME. Find ways to relax, relieve tension, and minimize stress. Meditate, read, take a walk, knit, listen to music or have quiet time where you can reflect, relax and chill. Follow a healthy eating plan, exercise, and get adequate sleep. Learn how to have fun!
BE FLEXIBLE. This is something that challenges many people. If you cannot be flexible, life can be a lot more stressful. Learn that not everything happens exactly as you plan it. There will always be times when you must make adjustments. If you don’t accomplish everything you expected to, accept it and move on. Perfection does not exist.
ORGANIZE. Always plan ahead. Create a structured plan at work to anticipate your needs and the needs of others who work with you. This eliminates wasted time. Try to have contingency plans for unexpected crises. Allow time each day to step away from your desk. Take a walk or take a break with co-workers.
Organize your personal space, as well. Clean out closets, the garage, the attic or your kids’ rooms. Take stock of what needs to be thrown out, put in a garage sale or given away to charity. Being organized helps free up precious time for things that are more important.
SAY NO. It is very difficult for many of us to say “no.” We don’t want to hurt other people’s feelings or we don’t want to seem like we don’t care. Overextending yourself, however, will lead to excessive stress. Too much stress upsets the balance of your health. Concentrate your time and energy on your priorities. Be willing to say "no" to everything else Define your boundaries and stick to them.
SCHEDULE. Schedule chunks of time throughout your week (time that you are not at your job) for all the things that are important to you. Don’t try to fill every minute. That will only cause undue stress.
Instead of wishing you had more time to spend with your loved ones, actually schedule time to spend with them on a regular basis. For your spouse, it could mean a date to have dinner or go see a movie. For your kids, it could mean watching movies at home or playing games with them.
SET LIMITS. This applies to everything in your life, work and personal. If you tend to work too long every day, set an 8-hour limit and stick to it. If you are challenged by this, find ways to eliminate those tasks that are non-essential and concentrate only on the essential ones.
SIMPLIFY. What are the things that are most important to you? If your life is too full, too busy and over complicated, you have no space for what truly matters and you are missing out on the things that give your life joy, serenity and laughter. You must simplify your life to make room for personal growth, relationships, and the fullness of life.
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