Life is getting more and more complicated and difficult for many of us. Are the stresses of life getting you down? Are you having fewer and fewer “good” days? Do you crave laughter, feelings of joy, contentment and peace? If so, use the following motivational tips to help you find your smiles again.
ELIMINATE THE NEGATIVE, EMBRACE THE POSITIVE. If you develop a positive attitude towards all things in life, you will attract all things positive back to you. Release negative thoughts. They are hazardous to your health. Once you get used to focusing on positive thoughts, it gets easier to dispel the negative ones. This includes eliminating the negative people from your life. They only look for what is wrong with the world.
KEEP IT SIMPLE. One of the main sources for stress is a life that is too complicated. Simplify it! Impossible, you say. No, it is not. It is necessary for a life well-lived. How to start? Identify what is most important in your life and eliminate everything else. Period. By ridding yourself of your life’s clutter, you are left with what is valuable. What IS clutter? You know what it is. It is overbooking yourself until you have no minutes left in the day, it is an overly materialistic lifestyle full of toys and luxuries that you sweat to pay for, it is a diet rich in unhealthy foods, it is a messy living space, and it is having your priorities in the wrong order.
LIFE IS SHORT. Re-evaluate your priorities. Put them in the order they should be in. Life is precious. Savor every moment of it. You can never go back and reclaim the time you have lost. Spend your time with those that are most valuable to you. Forget the rest.
MOVE! Dance, roller-skate, swim, rake your leaves, or take a leisurely walk. Doing any sort of aerobic movement revs up your metabolism, gets you motivated, and releases endorphins that make you feel good all over. Your perspective changes and you feel better about yourself. In short, physical movement is one of the best all-round motivators around.
NURTURE YOU. Get a massage, meditate, take a day off to do nothing, have lunch with a friend, take a walk in the park, watch your favorite movie or read a book, go shopping for nothing in particular, take a nap in the hammock, take a long, hot, bath in your favorite bath oil. Do whatever makes YOU feel good. After all, who knows better than you what makes you happy?
TAKE RISKS. To keep your mind and body active, get out of your comfort zone and try new and different things. Never be afraid to go where you have not gone before. Life is all about taking chances to find what makes you happy. If making changes and taking chances terrifies you, take baby steps. Eventually, you will find what you are looking for but only if you are willing to start the search.
USE YOUR SENSES. Surround yourself with things that inspire you, bring you joy, and make you feel good.
*Do you love bright colors? Paint your living space with colors that you love.
*Do you love music? Listen to the music that brings you joy as often as you can.
*Do you love certain scents? Buy candles that have those scents and burn them as often as you can.
*Do you love to touch? Use fabrics that are soft and inviting. Pet your dog or cat. Give your children a hug. Caress your spouse.
Use your senses as they were meant to be used, to experience life in ways that bring you joy.
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