Do you need to make some changes and/or improvements to your personal life? Are bad habits preventing you from making any progress? Habits are one of the toughest things to break. Why?
Habits are developed, sometimes over a long period of time, from training, influences, observation, and practice. We develop many habits throughout our life, some good, some not so good.
Good habits we can keep, but if one wants to improve their life the bad habits have to go. Getting rid of bad habits is not easy, especially if an addiction is involved. Some very good tips on how to break bad habits are listed below:
STOP MAKING EXCUSES!
The first key to success is to stop making excuses. Some people wander through life making excuses. Anytime they see something they don’t want to deal with, they will make excuses about why they cannot deal with it.
If you are out to improve your life, you need to learn how to be honest; not just honest with others, but honest with yourself. Honesty will lead you to improve your life and to make the commitment to learn new behaviors and good habits.
CHOOSE A NEW HABIT.
Choose a new, good habit. For instance, plan to eat healthier. Instead of hating the thought of eating healthier foods, make the commitment to do it anyway. Even if you start out slowly, you are still making positive changes.
STOP COMPARING YOURSELF TO OTHERS.
Many people waste their time and energies comparing themselves to others. When you compare yourself to others, you are setting yourself up for bitterness, resentment and unhappiness. Why? Because we usually compare ourselves to those who are, we perceive, much better off than we are.
Instead of making comparisons between yourself and others, stop and count your blessings. Always count what you have, not what you do not have. Think about how lucky you are and the people in your life who love you.
FOCUS ON YOUR STRENGTHS.
Instead of looking at your weaknesses, ask yourself what your strengths are. Celebrate them! Be proud of them. Don’t brag, but feel good about them and work on using them to your best advantage.
ALWAYS CONSIDER THE GLASS HALF FULL, NOT HALF EMPTY.
Do you go through your life always looking at the negative side of everything? Do you think you cannot change your life? Are you always saying, “Why me?” When you spend your life thinking and acting negatively, you will only attract negativity to you.
Instead of saying, “Why me?” Say, “I can change something and I am going to today.” If there is something you cannot change, accept it and move on. Don’t wallow in it and let it pull you down.
Do you have friends weighing you down? If so, make new friends. You have the power to make changes to your life, but you do not have the power to change other people.
When you start to make changes to improve your life, start small. Instead of jumping the gun, take baby steps to success. Too many times people try to change overnight. This only leads to frustration.
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