How would you finish this sentence? Happiness is……………………….
Are you sitting around waiting for a big ball of happiness to fall on your lap? What exactly is it you are waiting for? Do you think happiness is a magical gift that will be bestowed upon you when you make a million dollars or find the perfect partner?
Happiness is not something you sit around and wait for. Happiness and joy can come into your life every day by making changes to your attitude, your expectations, and your “happiness” meter. Here are some ways to create happiness and joy in your life:
1. When you awaken in the morning, say a prayer of thanks that you are alive and able to meet the new day. Envision all the wonderful experiences you will have. If you have problems that need to be solved, visualize yourself finding positive solutions for them. Start your day with a big smile!
2. Smile. No, you don’t need to be having a conversation with someone or reading a funny joke or watching a funny movie. Just smile. Try it. Mean it. Take a deep breath. Admit it. You feel better.
3. Now, go out for a walk, or to the grocery, or sit on your porch. Smile and say hello to everyone you see. This small gesture can mean the world to someone else. It means you care enough to acknowledge them. For some, that is all the attention they may ever receive and it will make them smile in return.
4. Give thanks. How many things in your life are you grateful for? Make a list. Your list will probably be longer than you thought possible. The number one item on your list should be YOU and your life. How long is YOUR list?
5. Create something wonderful in your kitchen with your kids or grandkids. Try a new recipe. If it doesn’t turn out well, try something else. Make cookies or cupcakes and decorate them. Eat them warm. Yum!
6. Listen to your favorite music or music that you enjoyed as a child. Listen in your car, while you are taking a walk, lying in bed or relaxing in your favorite easy chair. If you’re alone, crank it up. If not, put your headphones on. Get up and dance or close your eyes and enjoy.
7. Clean out your closets and take the clothes to your local Goodwill or Salvation Army outlet. You will be doing something good for yourself and for others. While you’re at it, have your kids clean out their toy boxes and donate their unwanted and unused toys. Donating toys during the Christmas season is a wonderful thing to do.
8. Do something fun, something that makes you laugh with delight or something you did and loved as a child. Roller skating, riding a bike, running along a beach, hunting for pretty rocks, playing tag with your kids, building a snowman, going out for ice cream, or whatever you can imagine.
9. Get out your photo albums and look through them. How long has it been since you have done that or have you ever done that? Seeing old photos of your parents and pictures of your children as they grow up is a wonderful way to relive happy memories.
10. Take a walk. Go to the park, walk along a river, or walk around your neighborhood and absorb the wonder and splendor of the season. Breathe deeply of the air. Give thanks for being able to appreciate the beauty that surrounds you.
11. Change your attitude. Every time you catch yourself thinking negative thoughts, turn them around to positive thoughts. Immediately! Get in the habit. Negativity is hazardous to your health. NEVER let it run your life. The more positive energy you send out in the world, the more comes back to you. Don’t ever forget that.
12. You are in charge of your life. If changes need to be made in your life, only you have the power to make those changes. Never expect others to improve your life. Only you can do that.
13. Surround yourself with beauty. Fill your living space with colors, scents and personal items that make you feel happy and peaceful. Do you like bright colors? Paint your bedroom in your favorite color. Do you like scented candles? Put them where you can enjoy their smell frequently. Do you like to read? Fill your space with books.
Happiness does not come from "things." It does not come from external circumstances. It comes from within each of us. You have the power to change your life. Learning how to use this power may require a shift in your attitude and your expectations but it is a power that all of us possess.
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