In today’s world, more and more emphasis is being placed not just on physical appearance, but in the case of women, the emphasis is on being as thin as possible. As a result, teenage girls are becoming obsessed with their body image.
One of the biggest problems of teenagers is being overweight. Overweight teenagers have a multitude of problems, not only health problems, but mental health issues like low self-esteem. This lack of confidence together with poor body image can cause deep depression.
If you are a parent who has an obese or overweight child and you want to help her safely and effectively lose weight, here are some tips:
(I have used the pronouns for a female but these issues can also affect males.)
Talk to your child. Losing weight is a decision you must help your child with. Ask her what she thinks about herself. If she confesses that she doesn’t feel good about her physical appearance, now is the time to ask her what she wants to do.
Give your child suggestions on how she can improve herself. Ask her if she is willing to lose weight. If she says yes, start planning out how to lose weight effectively, safely, and in a healthy way. The decision must include the full participation of both parties.
Devise a plan. Aside from assuring your child that she has your full support, it is a wise decision if you both formulate a specific plan, including possible resources and strategies you can use.
Change your eating and exercising patterns together. This is vitally important! If you really want to help your child lose weight, you must formulate an eating and exercise plan that can help her do so effectively. Your plan should include the proper foods to eat, along with regular exercise such as walking, swimming or skating.
Don’t have unhealthy food in the house! It will be very difficult and challenging for your child to stick to a healthy food regimen if you continue to purchase chips, ice cream, cookies, candy, etc. and have them in the house. By eliminating the unhealthy processed and junk foods, you are improving the health of your whole family.
Seek professional help. Ask help from professionals and experts that have expertise in cognitive-behavior therapy and weight. Since obesity is one of the major problems of teenagers, more and more psychologists offer their services to help teens who are overweight.
The most important aspect of helping your child to lose weight is showing your full support by encouragement, lots of positive reinforcement, and sensitivity to your child’s emotional and mental needs during the weight loss process. Participating in exercise activities and following a healthy eating plan along with your child is a wonderful way for you to show your love and support in her endeavors.
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