Do you know how to take care of yourself? What a silly question! Of course we know how to take care of ourselves, right? Mmm…not really. Most people are kind of fuzzy on what self care really is and how you practice it. How do YOU take care of yourself?
In order to love and respect yourself, you must take good care of yourself. Self-care is not just a matter of making healthy lifestyle choices. It is about having healthy boundaries, being in tune to your needs, and staying faithful to your values. Self-neglect takes a toll on your physical and mental health and your relationships.
It's important that we look for ways to nurture ourselves. What are some ways that you can take better care of yourself?
SELF CARE TIPS
EAT HEALTHY. Good nutrition is the key to a balanced and healthy lifestyle. Work towards eliminating junk food and excess sugar that can lead to emotionally extreme highs and lows. Experiment until you find what works for you, but keep in mind that any crash dieting or abrupt changes will only cause more anxiety for you. The essential ingredient for a healthy eating plan is balance. If you follow a balanced approach to your diet, you will make slow but steady changes that will carry you through for life.
EXERCISE. Take a walk. Nothing can brighten up a miserable day like a revitalizing walk. Even if you can only spare 10 minutes of walking outdoors, you can cheer yourself up and boost your mood. Take deep breaths to release tension and you will notice an immediate improvement in your spirits. You can also ride a bike, go swimming, skating, skiing, work in the garden, or play tag with your kids.
FIND COMFORT. We all need to be comforted sometimes. It’s good to recognize when we have that need and find ways to experience it. Call a friend or family member, make yourself something warm to drink, look at family photo albums, curl up with a pet, indulge in a comfort food, wrap yourself up in a blanket, write in your journal, or find a smell that brings you particular comfort like vanilla, lavender, baking bread, or coffee brewing.
FORGIVE. We are so often held back from moving on with our lives because we are hung up on the hurts from past relationships. We can’t move on because we have not forgiven another person. You can never learn, grow, or experience true joy until you learn to forgive. True forgiveness sets you free. The first step toward forgiveness is to forgive yourself.
HAVE FUN! Do you remember the simple joys of being a kid? As adults, we become so mired in our problems and responsibilities, we forget how to simply have fun. Learn how to be playful and silly again. Indulging in something so simple as going to the playground and swinging can make you, at least for a little while, forget all about the bills that need to be paid or the deadlines at work that have to be met. The more you can relax and have fun, the better you will be able to meet your adult responsibilities because your stress level will be so much lower. So, blow some bubbles, ride a bike, make cookies, do somersaults in the grass, watch the clouds, or play with your dog. You get the idea.
MAKE TIME FOR YOURSELF. This is so very important. You must do this to rejuvenate your spirit. This is your life, right now. Do you really want to spend it stressed out, always rushing around to try to get everything done, or do you want to actually enjoy yourself for a change? NEVER think you’ll relax once you get everything done. There will always be something else to do, something else to worry about. Instead, figure out what tasks and responsibilities are absolutely necessary and eliminate everything else.
VOLUNTEER. The joys you experience from volunteering are numerous. Helping others is one of the most effective ways to feel good about yourself. Your perception about your own troubles changes, usually dramatically, when you give of yourself to others who are in much greater need than you. There are so many opportunities for volunteering; nursing homes, hospitals, food pantries, mental health facilities, etc.
WHAT DO YOU LOVE TO DO? Do you enjoy crafts? Try knitting, crocheting, working crossword or jigsaw puzzles. Read books, reading is a great de-stresser as it encourages your mind to drift into the world of the story. Play board games or card games with your kids. Build model airplanes or cars, collect coins or stamps, visit museums, or travel. Do whatever makes YOU happy.
EXTRAS. Take a long, soothing bath. Light some scented candles and put on some relaxing music. You’ll feel calm instantly, and much more refreshed the next day. Another great stress reliever is to get a massage. There is nothing better to bring complete relaxation to your body than getting a good, deep body massage.
How you choose to live your life is up to you, no one else. Make the choice to love yourself and care for yourself as you would for a much-loved family member or friend. Ultimately, you are the only one responsible for you. Live your life. Don’t be a spectator. Live, love, and laugh every day with all your heart. You only get one turn.
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