When you were a child were you rewarded with food to celebrate a good grade or when you sat still through church or perhaps, when you were quiet while your mom talked on the phone? From an early age, we are conditioned to use food as a reward. As adults, we may reward ourselves with an ice-cream sundae to celebrate a success at work.
The problem is, food was never designed to be used as a reward. Food exists simply to give us energy. When we look at food as a reward, there is a great temptation to overeat. We believe that we deserve it, that we’ve earned this opportunity to indulge. We feel gratified when we eat food that might otherwise be forbidden.
Our food-as-reward culture has had calamitous consequences. An increasing number of us are overweight, and getting fatter by the year. We suffer from a myriad of health problems as a result of our obesity. We may feel lethargic and unmotivated—too stuffed to engage in exercise. We have become a nation of couch potatoes.
We don’t have to continue living this way. We can simply stop rewarding ourselves with food. However, it may not be that simple. We will have to change our mindset—to develop alternative systems of rewards. While this may seem difficult at first, it can be accomplished in time.
Here are some ideas for rewards that do not involve food:
- If you love to shop but don’t have the financial resources to do so, try going to a dollar store. You won’t spend much but will have a great time finding some good bargains.
- Indulge in a massage. This is a wonderful, relaxing way to reward yourself. It’s also very good for you mentally and physically.
- Buy a book by your favorite author. Curl up in your most comfortable chair and indulge in some guilt-free reading.
- Put on some music. Relax and enjoy the simple pleasure of listening.
- Go play! Play outside with your kids, your dog, or go play tennis with a friend. Take a walk or go on a hike. Go to the skating rink, the playground, the beach or a swimming pool. You will have fun and the physical exercise is great for your mental and physical health.
- Volunteer! This is a wonderful way to make yourself feel good and give something back to those in need. There is always a need for volunteers at nursing homes, hospitals, soup kitchens and elementary schools. The rewards are tremendous.
You could also consider varying your routine.
- If you’ve become accustomed to rewarding yourself with a high-calorie cappuccino in the morning, spend some time in quiet reflection instead.
- If you feel as if you’ll be tempted to raid a candy store on your way home from work, take an alternate route instead.
- If you like to reward yourself with snacks in the evening, try knitting, working a puzzle, or reading so you don’t have time to reach for a snack.
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