If you are like most people today, you are living a life that is full of stress, anxiety and not enough time to do the things you need and want. How do you take back control of your life? You start by making changes in how you perceive your life, how you take care of yourself, and learning how to change negative thinking into positive thinking.
Use the following tips and suggestions to help you shift into positive thinking patterns:
Take Care of Yourself. It's much easier to be positive when you are following a nutritious eating plan and getting enough exercise and rest. Take a walk every day. Getting exercise makes you feel better both mentally and physically.
Be Grateful. Stresses and challenges don't seem quite as bad when you are constantly reminding yourself of the things that are right in your life. Taking just 60 seconds a day to stop and appreciate those things makes a huge difference in your attitude.
Banish Negative Thoughts. Your thoughts can't hold any power over you if you don't judge them. If you notice yourself having a negative thought, disconnect yourself from it, witness it, but don't follow it.
Never Make Assumptions. A fear of not being liked or accepted can lead us to assume that we know what others are thinking, but you do not know what others are thinking and you do not have control over what others are thinking. Don't waste time worrying about what you cannot control.
Increase Your Social Activity. Get out and meet people. Church organizations are good places to meet people. Other great ways to meet people; take a class at your local community college, take up painting, learn how to dance, join your local symphony, theater or chorus. By increasing social activity, you decrease loneliness.
Volunteer your Time. Giving of yourself makes you feel good and is positive energy. The more you put out into the world, the more you will receive in return. There are so many choices; nursing homes, soup kitchens, hospitals, elementary schools, elderly neighbors, animal shelters, senior citizen centers, etc.
Use Pattern Interrupts to Combat Rumination. If you find yourself ruminating, a great way to stop it is to interrupt the pattern and force yourself to do something completely different. Rumination is like hyper-focus on something negative. It's never productive because it's not rational. It's just excessive worry. Go for a walk, call a friend, pick up a book, or turn on some music.
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